After being in a relationship for the 2nd time for 3 years, I realize I love the first girl I dated and ruined it! I still love her, what…

Answer by Arûn Râinâ:

Well by chance if u never had been in relation with another girl, after that breakup then there might be a chance for you to convince her that you still love her , but as u was again in relation as again a breakup, its very tough to convince that girl, but not impossible.
just approach that girl , tell her that today i really find what love is , u r the person whom i love most, u r the 1 without whom i cant live, i know i was over possessive but today i realize that i was happy with you .
Just stop worrying about it and start being more awesome.
Be kind, confident, considerate, active, curious, romantic. Be all that she wants. Women often confuse men by being attracted to bad boys but then complaining how there are no nice guys. Guys often find that inconsistent and illogical but actually it is not. There is no contradiction about wanting a guy who is strong and confident and rides a Harley but who also loves his mother, cuddles puppies and cries at the end of Toy Story 3. That's the kind of guy I aspire to be. Strong and cool, but also considerate and sensitive. That's the kind of guy you should be.
Be the best person you can possibly be. Give her a reason to come back to the new and improved you, rather than just whining and begging her to come back to exactly the same old (apparently tiresome) you.
Some people say you shouldn't change for other people, that they should accept you for who you are. That is the biggest load of bullshit the world has ever heard. Sure, don't be fake, but if what you are doing isn't working, it is time to change what you are doing. She is tired of your relationship, and that's fair enough. If you were satisfied with the relationship but she wasn't, then it was YOU who was doing something wrong.
I am not trying to be mean to you. My sincere advice is just to focus on yourself. Buy new clothes, go on a diet, work out more, take a class to learn something new, improve the way you speak, do charity work. Be amazing and she will come running back to you.
THANKS FOR A2A !

After being in a relationship for the 2nd time for 3 years, I realize I love the first girl I dated and ruined it! I still love her, what…

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