Answer by Arûn Râinâ:
Exercise tact. If you want to avoid hurting your boyfriend, be tactful with your reasons behind the breakup. Although you want to be honest as possible, use your best discretion. For example, do not tell her "I just don't think you're good enough for me."How do you give a baby an injection? The needle hurts, doesn't it? They are so precious and defenseless – they've done nothing to deserve this pain!Except that you know they would rather have a few seconds of pain now than measles in two years.If you can't give this person what they want, or they don't give you what you need, you need to break up with them now because that is the most generous thing you can do for them.Help them now by letting them go to regroup and figure out who they can be and who they want to be with. Don't string them along for the sake of sympathy. Sympathy makes for a horrible relationship.hope it works for you !